Welcome to my world – welcome to my life!
I’ve always loved expressing myself through a feminine and elegant style, and I’m passionate about inspiring others to embrace their dreams, desires, and individuality.
Too often, we’re told who we should be – how to dress, how strong or soft to appear, what’s “acceptable” based on outdated expectations. But real confidence begins when we stop living for others and start honoring who we truly are.
I feel most alive when I’m surrounded by creative, open-minded people. It’s in those honest conversations and shared ideas that we truly grow and evolve into our best selves.
For too long, I tried to fit into boxes that weren’t meant for me. Now, I celebrate the freedom of being unapologetically myself – and I hope to encourage you to do the same.
Believe in yourself. Anything is possible.
Live your life with joy, style, and confidence.
Over a decade ago, a simple trip to the U.S. marked the beginning of something I never could’ve imagined. What started as a few personal updates to friends and family slowly unfolded into a life-changing adventure — one that shaped not only my work but also who I am. If there’s one thing I’ve learned along the way, it’s this: trust yourself, believe in your vision, and never let go of your dreams.
That passion sparked the creation of my first blogs — pureGLAM.tv, a space for lifestyle and elegance, and Heels & Hotels, where I shared stories from luxury getaways, fine dining, and unique experiences around the world. As things grew, so did the opportunities: collaborations with brands, speaking engagements, and creative workshops with companies and fellow creators.
At one point, I was spending over 200 nights a year traveling — collecting memories, learning constantly, and finding inspiration in the unexpected. But as the digital world changed, so did the atmosphere. The sense of community I once loved began to fade, replaced by competition and comparison. It no longer felt authentic — not like it used to.
And that’s when I knew it was time for a new chapter…
They say every life has its defining moments — the kind that quietly shift everything. For me, one of those moments came when I realized I was no longer creating for myself, but constantly working for others — helping them grow their blogs, manage brand partnerships, and build their digital presence.
Then came a trip I had organized for a group of content creators. What should have been a celebration of creativity quickly turned into unsolicited commentary. Suddenly, there it was again — the so-called “good advice” about my own online presence.
“Are you really going to post that?”
“What will your friends and family think of that outfit?”
“Isn’t that skirt too short, the heels too high, the neckline too daring?”
“Can you even show yourself like that online?”
In that moment, I was stunned — and strangely, it woke me up. Why was I spending 12 to 16 hours a day working so hard to support others, when I was being judged not by my work or values, but by the clothes I wore?
That was the turning point.
Instead of toning myself down, blending in, or playing a part to make others comfortable, I made a decision: to show up fully — as a woman, as a creator, as an entrepreneur. Unapologetically myself. With a strong voice, a bold style, and the freedom to be different.
It became the fuel for a new chapter — one where I stopped asking for permission and started encouraging others to do the same. We don’t need to fit in to be successful. We don’t need to shrink to be accepted. There’s power in walking your own path, in breaking free from society’s expectations, and in choosing to live your life — fully, fearlessly, and on your terms.
For nearly four years now, I’ve spent most of my time living in the United States — a decision I’ve never once regretted. Being here has reminded me just how liberating it is to live life differently, to slow down, and to fully embrace moments without constantly reaching for a phone.
Years ago, it felt almost mandatory — through brand partnerships and workshops — to share every second on Instagram, TikTok, YouTube, or the blog. Today, I find joy in simply living. And more than that, in sharing this feeling with others. The ease, the openness, the curiosity for the new — that’s what shapes both my daily life and my work.
I’ve been an entrepreneur for many years now, active in multiple industries. I invest in startups focused on technology, health, and artificial intelligence, and I’m also involved in the world of cryptocurrency. My approach blends style with substance — because I truly believe that intelligence, curiosity, and elegance are not opposites, but powerful allies.
Now, I’ve returned to sharing content in the same spirit I started with — like writing for friends. There are no sponsorships, no obligations. I share when I feel inspired, not because I have to.
Everything can be shared — but nothing has to be.
Sometimes, we need to relearn how to enjoy the moment ourselves — before we can inspire others to listen to their own dreams again.
I’m not here to please everyone. This private blog exists for one purpose: to encourage and inspire — not just women, but anyone who’s longing for more depth, more freedom, and more authenticity in their life.
Yes, a woman can be strong. And yes, a man can show emotion without shame. Strength isn’t about perfection, and vulnerability isn’t weakness.
I want to show that you have the right to shape your own life — with elegance, with intention, and without fitting into someone else’s box. You can live authentically without imposing on others. With grace, with conviction, and with the courage to stay true to yourself.
This space — Vanessa Pur — is about self-determination, aesthetics, and inspiration. It’s about clarity in thought and elegance in self-expression. About change and motivation — not someday, but now.
If you’re ready to break free from outside expectations, to explore new perspectives, and to embrace your own unique style — then you’ve come to the right place.
I’m glad you’re here.
Vanessa Pur